Monday, July 9, 2012

Review: Being Friends With Boys by Terra Elan McVoy

Being Friends With Boys by Terra Elan McVoy
Simon Pulse, 361 Pages
US Release Date: May 1, 2012
Challenges: Local Library Challenge, YA Contemporary Challenge, Completely Contemporary Challenge


Charlotte and Oliver have been friends forever. She knows that he, Abe, and Trip consider her to be one of the guys, and she likes it that way. She likes being the friend who keeps them all together. Likes offering a girl's perspective on their love lives. Likes being the behind-the-scenes wordsmith who writes all the lyrics for the boys' band. Char has a house full of stepsisters and a past full of backstabbing (female) ex-best friends, so for her, being friends with boys is refreshingly drama-free...until it isn't any more.

When a new boy enters the scene and makes Char feel like, well, a total girl...and two of her other friends have a falling out that may or may not be related to one of them deciding he possibly wants to be more than friends with Char...being friends with all these boys suddenly becomes a lot more complicated.
--------------------------Goodreads summary

Notable Quote
Even your misery was compelling.
No matter how hard I try to get out of the contemporary world of YA literature, I can’t deny that it’s the place I feel most at home in. Every time I read a contemp after a string of Dystopian/Sci-Fi/Fantasy/Thriller/whatever, I just get that overwhelming sense of “yes. This is where I belong.”

Being Friends With Boys reinforces that feeling of belonging. Perfectly.

I’ve never read any of Terra’s books before but I can assure you that after this, I definitely will check out her others! Her writing is so genuine and quietly strong, she really knows how to build characters that could walk past me on the street any second. The voices of each character are distinct, and each personality is crystal clear.

Initially, I wanted to read this book because it sounded similar to my own life. I do have girl friends, but growing up, I was definitely ‘one of the guys.’ I hung out with my brother and all his friends (still do) and always had a ton of guy friends. The dynamic is just different, you know? I don’t mean anything bad towards female friends, I love my girls and would be lost without their friendship and willingness to dissect every little glance and touch and not-saying-but-he-said-it-with-his-eyes moment. But guys are different, and sometimes it’s nice to enter into their world.

Being Friends With Boys is pretty spot on regarding how girls are friends with guys. How usually it’s drama free and easier, but one tiny little change and it will make it a mass of complications. My life is nothing like Charlotte's, and none of my guy friends are like the boys in this novel; but I felt like I was seeing my own relationships with guys on the pages. How some just have that deep, underlying understanding that can’t be questioned. How some are so comfortable and close you sometimes have to look away because you see him too clearly. How some are just innately complicated. How some start as more, and then get fuzzy with where it goes. How some friendships are just friendships. How some are better left at friendship. All of those were found in this novel, just as I’ve found them in my own life, and I loved every minute of it.

Also, all these boys? I've never been so in love, so mad, and so emotional towards so many characters at once! I felt just as invested as Charlotte, like it was me going through the fights or listening to music or hashing out songs and lyrics or having his arm slung around my shoulders. It definitely got a bit difficult to track at times, and the opening pages had so many different boy names in them I had to reread it just to figure out the relationships. But each boy is so unique and fun in their own way, making me all angsty towards them. While I had a suspicion from the very beginning how it would all play out, I was kept guessing the finer details until almost the end.

I was pleasantly surprised at the family aspect, too. While not a large part of the novel, I enjoyed that it's a functional, solid family unit of a blended family. So many books portray step-families as evil or misunderstood or terrible, and this was entirely refreshing to see it working. Giving sisters to Charlotte was also a brilliant way to counteract all the boys in her life, and my heart crumbled a bit when Jilly left to go back to college after Thanksgiving Break.

Charlotte is also a really strong character, and I appreciate that Terra let her be an independent girl among all these guys. She wasn't clingy or fussy or slutty or trampy towards them; she just was. She knew who she was; she just wasn't sure who she was with each of the guys. She's pretty fierce all on her own, with the perfect amount of teen indecision and doubt mixed in. With the exception of grades (I can't stand the idea of missing an assignment!), I'm fairly certain I could be Charlotte. Or at least, I hope!

Being Friends With Boys is the perfect contemporary YA novel, with tons of lovable characters, a great story, and fun little twists and surprises. If you want to fall in love and find some great friendships, pick this one up.

4.5 Stars

Friday, July 6, 2012

Friday Memes: TGIF (16) & Follow Friday (15)

So this is going up suuuuuper late, but I really wanted to answer the questions! Better late than never, right?

TGIF is hosted by Ginger at Greads!

Comfort Reads
Which books do you go to for comfort and familiarity? Is there a type of book you seek out when you're needing that extra bit of comfort in your life?

There are two types of books I will always seek out when I need comfort or various reassurances or simply need to begin reading a book and know it will be enjoyable: 1) Contemporary. It is the core of my reading life, and the genre in which I always find a home. and 2) Christmas/holiday novels. Such a warm and fuzzy time, and I love reading about snuggling by fires and bundling to go sledding. Plus, Christmas novels rarely have bad endings, so I know I'm guaranteed a happy, works-out-as-it-should ending.


Wanderlove by Kirsten Hubbard
Nick & Norah's Infinite Playlist by Rachel Cohn and David Levithan
Just Listen by Sarah Dessen




Dash & Lily's Book of Dares by Rachel Cohn and David Levithan
Let It Snow by John Green, Maureen Johnson, and Lauren Myracle
Any Debbie Macomber Christmas book. (Seriously. I check out literally every single one starting in September and read them every year. Love them.)
(if anyone knows any other YA Christmas/holiday books I should read, let me know!)

What are your comfort reads?
Leave me your link and I'll come check it out!
Follow Friday is hosted by Alison Can Read and Parajunkee's View, meant to spotlight two blogs and allows bloggers to link up and meet other fabulous bookish friends and share the Following love!


And the question of the week is:
Jumping Genres: Ever pick up a book from a genre you usually don't like and LOVE it? Tell us about it and why you picked it up in the first place.

So truthfully, I pretty much have a grudge against all books that aren't contemporary. I never, ever want to go out of it - but I "force" myself because I know I'm missing out on great books. And while I've loved a lot outside this genre, I can't help but feel like I'm away from familiarity whenever I read other genres. There aren't any that I really don't like - I'm just partial to contemporary all the time.

That said! These are the ones that surprised me:


Under the Never Sky by Veronica Rossi
I was still fairly new to the Dystopian world when I read this (I'd really only read THG and ATU) and wasn't sold on the genre yet. I picked it up at the insistence of other book bloggers and authors (namely, Jon) that said it was amazing. And it was! (Read my review here!)

Cinder by Marissa Meyer
Cyborg fairy tale? Not something I'd gravitate towards. It sounded strange...but oh my god it works. Does it ever work. I picked it up since it had been lumped in with those amazing Dystopian debuts at the beginning of the year. (Read my review here!)

The Mortal Instruments series by Cassandra Clare
Paranormal is the one genre that definitely rides the "I don't like this genre" line for me. I'm just not sold on it yet. The majority I've read don't do anything for me...EXCEPT The Mortal Instruments. I love love love this series (and The Infernal Devices).  And honestly, I don't remember why I picked it up! I started this way back before I was ever a book blogger, before I even knew book blogging existed, before I was reading mainly YA even! So I don't know what attracted me to it, or why I picked it up. But I'm very glad I did! 

Have you jumped genres?
Leave me your link and I'll hop by!
And of course I'd love to return a follow if you are kind enough to follow me :)

Thursday, July 5, 2012

ALA Annual 2012 Recap + Notable Moments

It's real, I'm a YA Book Blogger!
Over a week after ALA Annual took place, and I finally feel like I'm caught up and recovered! Which is just in time, because Comic-con schedules are finally released and now I get to start planning that fun. (Are you going to SDCC? Tell me if so!)

First, it blows my mind that people actually read this little blog of mine. Obviously it's out there, and I want it to be read; but for people, readers, authors and publishers to remember it, know it, tell me they've checked out my site or read my reviews before in real life?! That's crazy, and I will never stop feeing humbled and grateful. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. Thank you thank you thank you.

It's hard to recap ALA without being boring - not because the event is boring, but because no one wants to read the number of booths I visited, the discussions I had with reps, how I read the back of a book and found it interesting. I went Friday and was properly overwhelmed, then realized that I was surrounded by books, and books are my home. There's nowhere else you can find accepting people and characters. Saturday was a whirlwind, but I actually didn't do too many signings - so it was a nice, full day of walking the exhibit hall, chatting with representatives, browsing titles, and spending time with my mom. I ran into Jamie from The Lost Lola, who's been a blog friend for awhile and I'm always happy to chat with. Molly Ringwald walked by me too, as did George RR Martin, David Levithan, and Corey Whaley (debates as to which was more exciting!).
The only picture I took on the exhibit floor.
Saturday night was amazing, and it definitely puts a run to ALA as being the best part of the weekend. The Great YA Blogger Meetup hosted by YA Highway and Stacked Books had a fantastic turnout, and it was so much fun to meet people who share what I love. You can see photos from the event at the YA Highway recap posted here. It's indescribable to be in a room with authors, publicists, other YA enthusiasts...I facebooked this statement after, and it still holds true:

It was great to meet new bloggers, see some old friends, and hang out with authors. Some of the wonderful people I met/saw/saw again on Saturday...
Stephanie Keuhn | Cory Jackson | Kirsten Hubbard | Jessi KirbyDebra Driza | Marissa Meyer | Kristen Kittscher | James Raney | Gretchen McNeil | Elana Arnold (whose ARC I'd picked up earlier in the day, so I was excited!) | Ava | Demetra Brodsky | Karen Wadsworth | Jamie of The Lost Lola | Jordyn of Ten Cent Notes (who has the cutest freakin' business card ever) | Lena of Addicted 2 Novels | Magan of Rather Be Reading | HD of Reading Writing Breathing | Mickey of I'm A Book Shark | Jenny of Books to the Sky | Maggie of Young Adult Anonymous | Cameron of What the Cat Read | Jamie of Two Chicks on Books/Entangled Publishing | Alethea of Read Now Sleep Later

Sunday was the last day I got to attend, and it was a great way to end the weekend. I met a few other bloggers (including S from Oh! Paper Pages, whose blog I love and had been chatting with on Twitter for awhile and we'd been trying to meet up all weekend; Cindy from Oodles of Books; and Sash from Sash and Em, who I admit to being a bit starstruck about since I love their blog!) and finally did a few signings. I totally get why bloggers love these events, because as I was walking around I kept running into people I'd met the night before or authors I knew and it was so much fun to chat books and hang out for a few minutes. I also managed to pick up Scarlet by Marissa Meyer, which was unexpected and awesome - plus I got to princess wave with Marissa, absolutely hilarious!
Top L: Marissa Meyer (Cinder, Scarlet)
Top R: Gennifer Albin (Crewel)
Bottom L: Jessica Khoury (Origin)
Bottom R: Michael Grant (Eve & Adam
So, that was ALA for me. A room full of books and strangers I've never felt more at home with.

And how could I not talk about the books? SO MANY BOOKS! I picked up some phenomenal ones - but I'm not going to share them all here just yet. I'll make a larger post so I can link them up to their GR sites, but for now I'm going to highlight a few that ARE special to me. Complete with some fun stories!

Ten by Gretchen McNeil
I ENDURED for this book: I got shoved! I was walking through HarperCollins, saw a stack of Ten sitting on a podium, and went to go get one. I'm amidst a crowd of probably 5 people (and I'd like to point out there were at least 15 copies on the podium) reaching to get one, when suddenly some middle-aged woman comes practically running up, SHOVES MY SHOULDER and makes me stumble to the right while she reached over, snaps up a copy, and rushes off. Completely unnecessary. You have no idea the amount of bad words that whizzed through my head.

The Other Normals by Ned Vizzini
THIS IS THE MOST EXCITING PART OF ALA FOR ME. Seriously. I can't even joke about it. I don't hide that I love Ned Vizzini. Forever and for always. I've had the pleasure of meeting him before, chatting a bit, and interacting on twitter, and he's such a nice, fun guy. Safe to say, wherever he goes, I will surely follow (not in a creepy stalker way of course...like a supportive, i'll-read-anything-you-write-and-give-to-the-public way). So naturally, when I found out that he'd be at the SOHO Press booth signing on Saturday, I was definitely there.

As he's signing copies of Who Done It? (see three books below!), he spots me and recognizes me! We said hi, had an awkward moment of 'do we hug hello or just shake hands?' that made me laugh (for the curious: we shook hands since we were in a professional environment), and talked a bit about the last event he did. I was extremely flattered that he remembered the write-up I did about the event, and it floored me when he thanked me for writing it. It was completely my honor to be able to write about him, and his thanks were unnecessary.

Anyway. We're holding up the line a bit, still talking as he's signing a book for me, and I tell him "by the way, I have been pestering Harper for the last two days about getting a copy of The Other Normals and they keep telling me no or that they're all out...if they get mad at you about some girl harassing them for your book, that's me and I'm sorry." He laughed and says, "You're dying to get my book and you still don't have a copy?" When I shook my head, he goes, "Well hold on, wait..." and pulls out his bag, proceeds to open it and pull out his ARC of The Other Normals and tells me, "you should have it, here...this is for you," then he signs and GIVES IT TO ME. I cannot tell you how hard I was holding in freaking out, squealing, generally unappealing fingerling behaviour - my mom, who had had been waiting for me behind the crowds, said my smile was off the charts when I turned around and that I practically skipped going back to her. It was such a jumble of me freaking out in my head and thanking him profusely that I have no idea what I actually said to him after (dear God I hope nothing horrible!), but I know I was smiling like a fool. It means a lot to me as a fan of his work and him in general, and I really hope he understands how much he made my day.

Daughter of Smoke and Bone by Laini Taylor
Given to me by my friend Natasha! We ran into each other in line for the Sarah J. Maas signing for Throne of Glass, and she'd just come from the Laini Taylor signing. I told her I'd shamefully never read Daughter of Smoke and Bone yet, and she proceeds to give me the copy she'd just picked up! Since she already owned copies of the book but had to get the paperback in order to get the sneak peak of Book 2 in the series, she had the extra. Thank you so much Natasha, you're amazing! I can't wait to read this!

The Diviners by Libba Bray
There were only 3 books I went to ALA hoping for: The Diviners, The Other Normals, and Prodigy. I know it's about meeting with publishers and chatting with other book lovers, but it'd be a lie if you said you weren't hoping to pick up some anticipated books. I had no idea if I would and I wasn't planning to push, shove, or bite anyone to get them -- but a girl can hope, right? So imagine my delight when I walked into ALA for the first time and the Little, Brown and Company booth right in front of me! I went to browse the titles and saw them setting up for Libba Bray's signing that was taking place the next morning. There was a line of The Diviners on the table, but I wasn't sure if I could have one since all the other books on the table had a Display Copy sticker on it and The Diviners didn't. I'd seen a woman take one, but she'd waited until the rep had his back turned before snatching it (literally) and rushing off. Terrible, I know. So I approached the rep and asked him if we were allowed to take a copy of The Diviners, and he said, "No, these are just display for her signing tomorrow, and I don't think we're giving them out yet...but hold on." and he went under the table and got me a copy. I. WAS. DYING. I could have not gone to the rest of ALA and been perfectly happy.

Who Done It? Anthology
Notable because I think this is the coolest book I picked up at ALA. I'd never heard of it before, but this is the book that Ned Vizzini was signing. I walked by SOHO Press earlier in the day and stopped to chat with some of the reps (they were fantastic! so much fun!), and read the synopsis of the Who Done It? anthology. Not only does it have some fantastic writers contributing (John Green! Maureen Johnson! Ned! David Levithan! Libba Bray! Lauren Myracle! Kiersten White! Click the images to go to the larger version and see the rest!), but it sounds like an AWESOME concept - very reminiscent of Clue! I can't wait to dive in and read this.

The books my mom picked up!
(She has much more restraint than I do...)
Penguin Summer, Winter, and YA samplers (thank you Penguin!)
Exile by Rebecca Lim (thank you Disney-Hyperion!)
Flock by Wendy Delsol (thank you Candlewick!)
And though I'm excited to read every title I picked up, these are the ones I'm absolutely dying to read:
The Land of Stories: The Wishing Spell by Chris Colfer (my mom has already usurped this from me haha)
Scarlet by Marissa Meyer
The Other Normals by Ned Vizzini
Speechless by Hannah Harrington
Prodigy by Marie Lu
The Diviners by Libba Bray
If I can swing the money, I'll definitely be at ALA Midwinter in Seattle; I have friends and family up there and in Portland, so it'd be a great little excuse to go see them. Otherwise, I'll just have to hope I can get to one of these again soon or have it come near wherever I am; it was a blast to be around all these bookish people!

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

NetGalley Knock-Down

NetGalley Knock-Down is hosted by Pretty Deadly Reviews

NetGalley Knock Down is a super laid back "challenge" during July with the goal of knocking out as many digital Galleys as possible. No set goals, no check-ins or strict deadlines; as many or as little as you can. If you would like to participate, sign ups are open until July 14! Just click here!

We're not required to make an "official signup" post or anything if we're participating, but I'm hoping a public declaration will hold me accountable. I'm leaving it up to you to bully me into finally reading these!

I am shamefully behind on my NetGalley books. Woefully. Painfully. Let's just say that I'm over 20 books behind. So that's why I'm doing the NetGalley Knock Down! I want to read these titles, I swear I do! I wouldn't have requested them if I didn't! But I still have a hard time e-reading, and truthfully, I just forget when I don't see them in stack in my room. My goal for the month of July:


Code Name Verity by Elizabeth (started this, just need to finish!)
Meant To Be by Lauren Morrill
My Life Next Door by Huntley Fitzpatrick
Flirting in Italian by Lauren Henderson
Pushing the Limits by Katie McGarry
Don't You Wish by Roxanne St. Clair




One Moment by Kristina McBride
Temptation by Karen Ann Hopkins
Kissing Shakespeare by Pamela Mingle
The Glimpse by Claire Merle
Glitch by Heather Anastasiu
Butter by Erin Jade Lange

(the sad part of this is if I finish all these, I'll be just over 50% caught up! *hangs head*)

Are you doing NG Knock Down?
What's your secret to stay caught up on digital galleys?

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Review: The Selection by Kiera Cass

The Selection (Selection #1) by Kiera Cass
HarperTeen, 327 Pages
US Release Date: April 24, 2012
Challenges: Local Library Challenge, Debut Author Challenge


For thirty-five girls, the Selection is the chance of a lifetime. The opportunity to escape the life laid out for them since birth. To be swept up in a world of glittering gowns and priceless jewels. To live in the palace and compete for the heart of the gorgeous Prince Maxon.

But for America Singer, being Selected is a nightmare. It means turning her back on her secret love with Aspen, who is a caste below her. Leaving her home to enter a fierce competition for a crown she doesn't want. Living in a palace that is constantly threatened by violent rebel attacks.

Then America meets Prince Maxon. Gradually, she starts to question all the plans she's made for herself- and realizes that the life she's always dreamed of may not compare to a future she never imagined.
----------------------------Goodreads summary

Notable Quote
In my experience, true love is usually the most inconvenient kind.
This book kept me up at night. No lie. First I stayed up way late to finish it just so I could find out what happened, and then at the end I was so freakin' frustrated that I tossed and turned at 6am trying to figure out my feelings about it. On one hand, it means it's a decent book to affect me like that; but also, BOO HISS I NEED SLEEP!

Obviously, I had expectations going into this book. There's been such a hype for it all year that there was no way I couldn't, no matter how hard I tried. I mean, I've heard every opinion under the sun about this book. My expectations were hesitant because the things I knew about it weren't really appealing: I can't stand the Bachelor shows (some of the worst brain rotting television, in my opinion) and I'm not generally a fan of the CW - so for them to not even pick up the pilot...well. That says something.

Though I am a fan of Ethan Peck. Yes ma'am I am.

So let's go the easy route and go with a pro/con list. Start with the bad!

Cons:
  • America. I know, the main damn character! She was largely a reason why I was kept up at night. She just pisses me off so much, and I get so frustrated with her choices and opinions. I find her to be selfish for a large part of the novel, which is terribly complicated since she's in the Selection to provide for her family! It seems like an unselfish reason (and it is), but that she's using the royal contest when there are millions of other girls who would die to be in her place for its actual function? Selfish.
  • Aspen. I hate him.
  • America and Aspen's relationship. I just did not see any value to it. I know we're supposed to assume it's a great relationship for having sustained in secret for 2 years, and he was sweet in the opening, but I just could not stand it after awhile. He was horrible and mean and to just let it go the way he did? Unacceptable. And for the record, she fell and he caught her?! I call massive shenanigans. Get your head out of your ass, America.
Pros:
  • Prince Maxon. I fell for him so much faster than I thought I would. The commanding voice telling the guards to let her into the gardens? BE STILL MY HEART.
  • It's a fast read. Some of the beginning is a bit weird for some reason (couldn't quite pinpoint why), but less than 50 pages in and I was sucked in entirely. It really is like watching bad reality TV: I just couldn't turn away, I had to know!
  • Handling a cast of 35 girls in writing is tough, but done well here. Just enough were highlighted to really be like a contest, but still manageable to a reader.
  • The history lesson. While most of the world-building was lacking, the history lesson was a smart move on the writer's part. I thought that was helpful and enabled me to understand the world they live in. 
  • The Singer family. America's family isn't perfect, but they love each other and understand the sacrifices they need to make for each other. I like their relationship.
  • The peeks into the Dystopian world. Like the rebel divisions that Maxon thinks exist, and how it seems they're searching for something specific. Even though it's all cliff-hanger-y goodness, I'm quite intrigued!
  • America's ladies in waiting. I love that they're a respectable part of the novel, that they play a larger part than just the girls who dress America. They each have stories and strength, which I appreciated.
  • Prince Maxon and America's relationship. Even though I don't really like America, I do like hers and Maxon's friendship/relationship hybrid. They're good together, and I liked their interactions and secret ear tugs and smiles together.
So, the pros outweigh the cons to me; but the cons are such large parts to the story! I ate up this novel, but there were strong flares of irritation through all of it. Prince Maxon and how utterly eager and cute he is did its best to simmer the annoyance, but still...it's there. I can't wait for book 2 though, just because I need to know what's going to happen! Especially after that ending, when I'm just so damn pissed at America and what she's doing within the castle. I just...I can't. I just can't. UGH.

I think the big thing someone has to know when going into this book is that it's not some tough, hardcore Dystopian. It has a set-up to be, but it's largely a romance book. Its focus is the love story and Prince Maxon finding a future wife and Queen; not on the war and attacks and Ilea's imminent doom. I do think it'll come in Book 2 though - at least, I hope so! I want to know about these attacks and rebels! As far as I'm concerned, this is a romance contemporary book masquerading as a Dystopian.

To further show my indecision, The Selection made me make a whole new rating. While I enjoyed it immensely and want to enter into the Selection myself to win Prince Maxon's heart, I'm just so damn bothered by America and Aspen I can't overlook it. I'm too dang torn!

4.25 Stars
(So what is that, like 4 and a point and a half of a star? Yeesh.)

Monday, July 2, 2012

Cover Love (1) + Book Trailer Badassery (1)

Badassery. Totally a word. In my world.

I don't normally do Cover Love posts, but two were just officially revealed that I cannot get over. LOVE.


Through the Ever Night by Veronica Rossi
PEREGRINE <333333. That's actually not really how I pictured him, but I'm down with this version. I dig his True Blood Bill Compton/Stephen Moyer style goin' on. Aside from the man candy though, I do love the colours, as well as the swirling around him. I take it to be Ether, but who can really say?

Mila 2.0 by Debra Driza
I AM SO GLAD THIS HAS OFFICIALLY BEEN RELEASED. It's been floating around but not "official" so I chose never to post it, but thankfully it's here and I can finally squeal about it. Do you not LOVE this?! The colours. The imagery. The font. I want I want I want.

What do you think of Veronica's and Debra's covers?
Love it? Hate it?

I'm not a Book Trailer girl. I don't know why, it's just not something that appeals to me. I'll watch one if it keeps popping up on my Twitter feed, or if I am really curious about the book, but it's rare. Well, I happened to watch these 2 over the weekend and I basically fell in love. You should watch them too!

Doesn't this look like a real TV show or movie?! Awesome! I think it has been optioned for movie rights, so maybe one day we'll have a real movie trailer, too!

The Forsaken by Lisa M. Stasse
This is a book trailer I can get behind: few real people (because I dislike having impressions of characters before I read them), gorgeous landscape, great treatments, nice amount of teaser and intrigue...perfect. I am also dying for this dang book.

Do you like book trailers? Recommend one to me!